I don't understand the rejection of hedonism on the basis that it justifies killing someone in their sleep if doing so would cause no distress, it generally does not. It might, in some very unlikely circumstances when not doing so would have even worse consequences, but any utilitarian theory might. Killing someone in their sleep would not be harmful but it would be unkind/unethical because you are depriving someone of wanted happiness. The moral actor in this scenario should not regard his pleasure as being any more important than the pleasure of the being he is killing.
This doesn't mean that we're obligated to create as many people who will experience pleasure as possible but preventing someone from experiencing pleasure and not creating someone who will experience pleasure are two different things. If being dead is a harmful or bad state of existence, then how can non-hedonists go about their daily lives not in a constant state of anxiety and grief over the fact that they are going to die? Shouldn't we mourn for all the sentient beings who will not come into existence and experience happiness (or acquire knowledge, autonomy, have their preference fulfilled etc. for all the preference/pluralistic utilitarians) if not being alive is a bad thing?
This doesn't mean that we're obligated to create as many people who will experience pleasure as possible but preventing someone from experiencing pleasure and not creating someone who will experience pleasure are two different things. If being dead is a harmful or bad state of existence, then how can non-hedonists go about their daily lives not in a constant state of anxiety and grief over the fact that they are going to die? Shouldn't we mourn for all the sentient beings who will not come into existence and experience happiness (or acquire knowledge, autonomy, have their preference fulfilled etc. for all the preference/pluralistic utilitarians) if not being alive is a bad thing?