There is an emerging social movement of Effective Altruism that has grown out of the organisations Giving What We Can and 80,000 Hours. Effective Altruists have a lot in common with utilitarians and often share priorities. The latest incarnation of effective altruist organisation is Mark Lee's
THINK (The High Impact Network).
If you would like to meet utilitarian-like people, I suggest you submit an application on the THINK webpage for a San Francisco branch of THINK and Mark Lee will let you know if anyone helpful is nearby.