"We are all one" is a common expression. "We're all interconnected," my mom used to say. "We are all part of each other," proclaim the god-like beings in one of my childhood movies, The Dark Crystal. These sentiments are fairly common throughout history, as you can see from the open individualism Wikipedia page.
I personally subscribe to empty individualism rather than open, but I think the distinction isn't that important ethically. In either case, the results are pretty similar. In particular, with empty individualism, you see your future self as one more organism that will have feelings, but it's not really different from any other present or future organism that will also have feelings. So why worry more about your future self than other selves? With open individualism, you see other selves as part of yourself, in which case you care about them as much as you care about your future self.
I vary in the extent to which I intuitively internalize these individualism-dissolving feelings. Many times my utilitarian motivations come from regular "empathy for others as others" rather than "caring about others because they're like myself." I think empty/open individualism are not necessary for utilitarianism. But they can be motivating for some, and they might be an interesting avenue to pursue.
I personally subscribe to empty individualism rather than open, but I think the distinction isn't that important ethically. In either case, the results are pretty similar. In particular, with empty individualism, you see your future self as one more organism that will have feelings, but it's not really different from any other present or future organism that will also have feelings. So why worry more about your future self than other selves? With open individualism, you see other selves as part of yourself, in which case you care about them as much as you care about your future self.
I vary in the extent to which I intuitively internalize these individualism-dissolving feelings. Many times my utilitarian motivations come from regular "empathy for others as others" rather than "caring about others because they're like myself." I think empty/open individualism are not necessary for utilitarianism. But they can be motivating for some, and they might be an interesting avenue to pursue.